Married kindergarten manager caught in intimate selfies: children’s parents supported her

She sent pornographic materials with her participation to her lover

The former workers’ village, and now the city of Kulebaki, 190 km from Nizhny Novgorod, woke up on Monday as the “Santa Barbara” of the entire Nizhny Novgorod region. The head of a local kindergarten was caught taking intimate selfies that bordered on porn in their frankness. And she didn’t just get caught: not only the reputation of the preschool children’s institution was at risk, but also two families with minor children.

“We have about 14 kindergartens in the city and they are always short of staff,” shares Irina, the mother of two children who go to “that same kindergarten,” as the institution with the disgraced boss is now called. – What happened is a personal matter, and she is a good manager. Who ever said that personal and work should be mixed?! Spouses are often unfaithful to each other; if everyone is fired because of this, there will be no one left to work!

The intrigue is that the head of the kindergarten, who has a husband and children, sent intimate selfies to her lover, who also has a family. And his wife found them in the cheater’s phone. And as revenge, she leaked them to the Runet, where they immediately created a sensation, including at the place of work of the newly minted “erotic model.” But Kulebak residents with preschool children are not concerned about the moral character of the manager, but about the lack of staff in kindergartens.

– How much we fought and asked that only Russian-speaking people be hired in the gardens! – Svetlana’s mother shares. – Not in the sense that we have some kind of nationalism, but children are just such repeaters! A girl from Tajikistan worked as a nanny for a friend’s children’s kindergarten. As a result, they all began to distort their words and spoke with a Tajik accent… Therefore, we, parents, are against the dismissal of trusted kindergarten staff because of some of their personal difficulties.

Other parents of preschoolers also agree with this position: it happens that the teacher or head is rude, yells at the children, but they don’t get rid of her, because she didn’t send her “nudes” to anyone…

“I believe that there should be one criterion,” one of them voices the opinion of the company of Kulebak fathers. – A decent person, a family man, will not consider such content. For me, our manager remains the same manager as she was until yesterday.

Lawyer Ruslan Bagdasarov has special warnings for all the characters in the “near-erotic” drama:

– The actions of a woman who distributed private photographs in cyberspace indicating the name of the one depicted in them fall under Article 137 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation “Violation of privacy”, which punishes the collection and dissemination of information about the private life of a citizen, constituting his personal and/or family secret, without his consent. The article provides for punishment in the form of a fine of up to 200 thousand rubles or correctional labor for up to 1 year. Stealing other people’s information (including from phones) is the same crime as stealing, say, from apartments. But adultery is not regulated by law. The victim is now the head of the kindergarten and has the right to initiate proceedings.

The heroine of the nude photo shoot did just that: she took a vacation and demanded that her personal photos be removed from public cyberspace and wrote a statement to “the person who distributed them.” But the parent committee of this kindergarten suspects that she will not return to her previous place of work, so moms and dads are worried – after all, she suited them quite well.

In the meantime, local residents are wondering whose family will fall apart first – the manager’s or her lover’s.

“If anyone remembers, three years ago, in a similar way – by leaking intimate photos to the Internet – the wife of a very influential man took revenge on her husband’s young mistress,” recalls psychologist Margarita Arutyunova. “With this, she upset the wedding of a 25-year-old girl with a famous fellow athlete. This was in the Caucasus, so no one was allowed to interfere in the internal affairs of the family, not even law enforcement officers. The young couple simply broke up, but, fortunately, everyone is alive and well. However, as a result of such actions, a more tragic development of events cannot be ruled out. In the same region, a husband stabbed his 22-year-old wife to death because of “defamatory photos” of her sent to his phone. And later an investigation showed that it was a montage… Now this husband doesn’t want to live at all.

– You can’t send anything personal to your phone! – sums up one of the Kulebak mothers. – Even if you really trust the subscriber. I would add that you can’t walk away from your family either. But who ever stopped?