Lel told the details of the separation from her ex-husband: “If a person is addicted, he will not change”

We couldn’t miss the opportunity and asked Katya how she was doing after the divorce. The singer began the conversation with the main news: she is going to surprise the audience with another new musical material, made in tandem with the younger generation.

— I am for creating duets and helping young talented guys. Someday they will help someone. Now, for example, young guys have appeared, quite famous, and they want to create a collaboration. Well, I’m ready to help,” Lel said. – Do you know what serious things happen then? Those who sing with me begin to develop creatively. I’m already thinking about a production center.

— Katya, your daughter’s birthday was not so long ago, how was it celebrated?

– Wonderful. The closest and most beloved people were present. My daughter even had tears of happiness when I made a toast for her. It’s so nice that the child is already aware, appreciates all this, it really warms the heart.

— What did the birthday girl wish for her birthday?

— She asked for a trip to Dubai. I replied that we were only there in January, she replied: “So what – I want more.” And recently she had a vacation – we went to Dubai again.

— How did you spend your time there?

— Great: we relaxed, went to her favorite malls, naturally. The girl wants to buy what she likes, she has good taste.

— They say it’s quite expensive there now…

— It seems to me that Dubai malls have always been expensive (laughs).

— It’s no longer a secret that you broke up with your husband, how is your life going now?

— In general, life is wonderful because you are calm, harmonious and belong to yourself, you don’t adapt to anyone and you don’t live in fear. I am sure that every person is given time for himself, his loved one, it must come. This is the time when you have yourself, your time and your interests. I am incredibly happy that I now have such time for a complete transformation, for a complete re-evaluation of my life. I can read when I want, I can watch the movies I want at any time, I can go wherever I want, with my friends, spend time with my child. I tell myself: enjoy today while you can, because tomorrow everything can change.

– How did you break up?

“We thanked each other, wished each other happiness, blessed each other. I said, “Go with God.” Today is a world where people must find the strength to let a person go by thanking him. Everyone has their own path, and that’s okay.

— After the divorce, does your spouse want to get you back?

– Well, he probably wants to. But now it is useless to do anything. I can’t be bought, no matter what he does, he knows it, so he doesn’t even come close, knowing there are no options. He had 18 whole years to correct the situation, to be in other energies, but if he didn’t have time to do this, that means that’s it: your road is closed. I don’t believe that people change at all. If a person is subject to some kind of temptation or addiction, then believe me, he will not change. I am a mature and conscious person, I do not believe in fairy tales. If a person has done this for a long time, he will do it tomorrow, so I chose my happy path and the path of my child.

— He didn’t try to turn to specialists to change in your eyes?

“It seems to me that he doesn’t even feel such a need, he believes that nothing special is happening in his life.” You see, we have different roads. For me this is not normal, for him it is normal. Moreover, I sent him to specialists many times.

— How is the relationship between Emilia’s daughter and her father?

– Naturally, they communicate, he helps sometimes. But my friends and relatives ask me: “Is the child provided with a father?” And I answer that no. But I hope for his decency that he will still provide help.

— By the way, how did your daughter take the information about the divorce? Did you consult with her?

– Certainly. She said: “Mom, do what you think, and you don’t need to make sacrifices because of me.” She and I trust each other and share. Even when someone calls me, she immediately asks: “Who is this? I have to know who’s calling you?” (smiles).

— Are you ready to start dating someone again?

“I’m ready for a new happy relationship with a free person – conscious, kind, accomplished, who will appreciate and thank you for what you are.” Our life is not so long that we have to adapt to someone or live in some kind of fear. Believe me, as soon as we women allow ourselves to accept what the Universe gives us, it will help us. You just need to tell yourself: “I’m ready to be happy.”

– And what could be the chosen one with whom you are ready to go on a date?

— Self-confident, brutal, who respects this world and himself. Be that as it may, he must also take care of his body.

– What if my daughter doesn’t like the chosen one?

– If a man is smart, he will do everything to please and attract the attention of a child. You know what they say: if a man loves a woman, he will love her children.

— How can you meet Katya Lel? Do they write to you in direct message?

— They write as much as they want, and not only in direct messages. But what kind of woman would meet people through direct messages? He can introduce himself as a different person and with a different photograph.

— Does it happen that they send racy photos?

– Certainly! I don’t react, but there are very beautiful ones (laughs). A lot of foreigners write to me, there are men with incredibly beautiful bodies. I watch all this, but I don’t answer, naturally.

— Haven’t you registered on dating sites?

– What are you saying: never. In fact, if a man wants, he will find a way to appear somewhere, as if by chance, and ask: “Can I meet you?” A man can track where I perform, where I broadcast, etc. You can always find me if you want. And in general, I believe that you cannot escape fate. There they are already leading him to you, and I just allow myself to accept it, and I am waiting for it. It will happen very soon, I know.

– Do you want a wedding?

– If this is a person who conquers me, I will fall madly in love with him and it will be mutual, who knows, maybe I will get married. We live and don’t know what will happen tomorrow, and what this Universe will send us. This is what makes life beautiful.