The Russians ran home from abroad from foreign suitors

Now the demand for foreign grooms from Russian brides, it would seem, should grow. But those who own the topic assure that the trend is just the opposite. We find out why.

The fact that the interaction of girls from Runet with gentlemen from the other World Wide Web has noticeably decreased is noted by modern matchmakers – admins of online sites for international online dating. Although they see the reason for the cooling in the fact that many of these resources on the territory of the Russian Federation are either blocked or left on their own. But domestic agencies that help with relocation think differently:

– Discussing the most suitable travel plan for the client in the direction of interest to him, – they share on the condition of anonymity in such an agency, – as an option, we also consider marriage with a citizen of another country. We have a corresponding database of foreign partners. Previously, this path was more often women, less often men. But lately, no one has considered this method.

Some fear a negative attitude towards themselves if they end up not in the Russian-speaking diaspora, but in the family of a foreigner. And even if the contract is such that our client does not have to live in the house of a newly-made foreign spouse, people are afraid to be left alone in an “unfriendly” environment.

Many people follow the story of a Petersburger whose Spaniard husband, with the connivance of his authorities, took away his son with Russian citizenship, and no one is able to help her.

They want to leave, but together with their own. Some, especially before leaving, marry, but with compatriots, in order to start a new life in a new place as a “team”. Childbirth is popular in Latin American countries, immediately giving citizenship to a newborn and his parents, for this our citizens are ready to sign and get pregnant. Now Argentina, the most convenient for this, has fallen out of the cage, having ceased to give residence permits to Russian newborns. But there are other possibilities as well.

I find out how things are with Russian women who had serious relationships with foreigners even before the pandemic. Have their novels withstood the test of recent years, did they manage to communicate, bypassing the coronavirus and geopolitical cordons?

“I went not just to Jacob, but to work,” says the Russian woman, who left for American Vermont as soon as the United States lifted coronavirus restrictions. – Even before the pandemic, I paid for a very expensive intermediary to find a job in America. They found a good place for me, but it all hung due to closed borders. And as soon as they were opened, I just carried out my old plan.

Jacob moved to the city where I work. We live together, but we are not in a hurry with an official marriage, I still have a working visa. To be honest, I just wouldn’t go to a man across the ocean – I would be afraid. You never know what he vzbredet, and I’m alone. Now they don’t like Russians here.

“My mom made us get married,” 24-year-old Lisa from St. Petersburg shares a secret, having met a Finnish guy for a long time, and now she has moved to him in his small Finnish town.

– During the pandemic, we were on the phone, then we began to dangle to each other across the land border. It became more and more difficult, then it is impossible, it is impossible. Everything is not as festive as it used to be, when we walked around St. Petersburg all night long. And I began to spend more time with a former classmate who did not like my mother. She put pressure on Johan, so he proposed to me. There was no grand wedding: his relatives did not approve of me, but they did not let me in.

– You are happy?

– We live well, peacefully, only very boring. The city is small, and we don’t have money to travel.

The 38-year-old wealthy Muscovite Mila had a wealthy gentleman from Milan a year ago. This couple should definitely be fine. But Mila declares that she left her Carlo.

– Since now I can not fly to him in Milan four times a year for new collections, then why all this? And I didn’t intend to move there with the ends, here I am the financial director of a large company, but who will I be there? His housekeeper?

A 51-year-old Muscovite has lived between Paris and London since the age of 25 with her Anglo-French husband. And now she has returned to her homeland with her 23-year-old daughter – she wants her to graduate from a Russian university for a European diploma.

– So that I can find a guy here, – my mother confesses at ladies’ gatherings. – There is no normal Russian girl to see.

– Did Europeans fall out of love with Russian women?

– Who loved the Slavs, he now has a large selection of refugees who are not up to whims. But in general, European youth have strange ideas about the family. Some kind of trial marriages, partnerships, shifts – everything is somehow not human. Now many of our people want to take their children born from Europeans and return home.

It could be assumed that this European husband sent his Russian wife to his homeland within the framework of anti-Russian sanctions, so she is dissatisfied. But Katin David called three times in the two hours of our bachelorette party and almost cried – he was bored.