Lyubov Uspenskaya asked her daughter not to marry: “Why should I put up with freaks?”

“The Queen of Chanson” believes that men are the enemies of her work and herself

Lyubov Uspenskaya was married four times. But she never managed to build a strong family. Now the 69-year-old “queen of chanson” does not even want to hear about marriage. Uspenskaya admitted that she was no longer going to the registry office and advised her only daughter Tatyana not to bind herself to anyone with the bonds of Hymen. And giving birth, according to Uspenskaya, is better for a daughter from a donor. She spoke about this in an exclusive interview with MK.

– What husband? Lyubov Zalmanovna exclaims. – For me, a husband is the loss of my life, career and everything in the world. None of the husbands did anything other than pull me back. Everyone tried to suppress my activities and so on and so forth. You can’t even contact me about husbands. For me, men are the enemies of my creativity and myself.

– But you were married four times. So you didn’t realize it before?

– I’ve always been aware. But I was very loving. Such a nature – nothing can be done about it. I fell in love with beautiful men, not understanding at that moment how it would all end. And it ended, as usual, with the fact that I realized that once again I had made a big mistake. She said to herself: “Why did you do this?”. Now I finally understood: no other man can hurt me.

– And if you suddenly fall in love again?

– That’s all. I have already gone through this school. Now I am in love with creativity, art, work, my daughter, friends. I don’t want any more serious relationship.

– That is, it turns out that you put an end to your personal life?

– Yes Yes Yes Yes. I like my independence, freedom much more. I don’t have to report to anyone, I don’t have to prove anything to anyone. Because I am an independent person. Not a single man supported me, you understand? I have always been an independent person. Why should I endure around me all sorts of freaks who will point me out and humiliate me? No, this will never happen again. This is the sad experience that I learned about from my family life.

– You do not communicate with ex-husbands?

– No, I don’t talk. One of my husbands died, that’s all. Another lives in America, another one also lives in the States. One husband lives in Kyiv. But you know what the situation is now. Although I know that he treats me very well. He took care of me when things got tough in my life.

– Do you think they regret that they did not have a life together?

– How do I know whether they regret or do not regret. I don’t care what they think. I know one thing: I personally no longer support family relationships. And I think that they harm a woman. Such an experience. A woman can live perfectly alone and without a man.

– Do you also advise your daughter not to get married?

– Don’t get married, yes.

– And what about children, procreation?

– It’s better to give birth to a child from a donor, and then you can fall in love with men as much as you want … Men, on the other hand, are pimps and gigolos. Then they use common children for their own benefit. Blackmail and so on and so forth. I have not yet had a single girlfriend who would not have gone through this terrible hell. I gave birth to a child – I thought that the family, everything is fine. And in the end, this man tries to take the child. You understand that my friends are wealthy people. And men use them as they can.

– You said that your last spouse also used you!

– Used – not the word! Blackmailed by a child! He said that he would not let her into Russia when I was still living in America. And then, when she became an adult, it was already too late. But I’m glad that now everything is fine with Tanya. We are together, and I am extremely happy about this.