A Dagestani woman handed over her husband’s capital mistress to the special services: the girl was detained at the airport

An abandoned wife from Makhachkala, having learned that her mistress from Moscow was flying to her husband, called the Makhachkala airport, called the name of the homewrecker and said that she was flying to the Dagestan capital “for the purpose of holding unauthorized rallies.” This seemingly private case turned out to be surprisingly resonant: we listened to those who are familiar with such female revenge firsthand.

According to the stories of those who knew the family, now the husband is not just cheating on the vengeful Makhachkala woman Bagzhad, as before, but actually divorced her, exchanging her for Oksana, a mistress from the Russian capital (the names of the female sources were changed by the author at their request).

“This happens all the time here,” sighs 45-year-old Makhachkala resident Aisha. – Just as ladies from the central part of Russia began to come to us on vacation, many of their husbands contacted them. It is they who say in front of their elders and wives that, they say, such and such tourists walk around half naked. And they get to know them when no one is looking.

The Dagestan special services reacted promptly: they “received” Oksana straight from the ramp of the Moscow flight, interrogated her, checked the veracity of her words – and realized that she was not planning any crime. Now they are looking for Bagzhad herself for false reporting, but she managed to escape.

Meanwhile, those who know the Makhachkala avenger are sure that in this way Bagzhad was trying not to get rid of her rival, but to protect her three children.

“In our case, during a divorce, children stay with their father, nothing can be done about it,” says 33-year-old Leila from Izberbash (a Dagestan city a little over an hour from Makhachkala. – Auto.). “Even if someone sues and wins, and the older relatives then decide that they should give it to their father, they will have to give it back.” Now imagine that your husband, along with your children, goes to some kind of heterodox woman of “lighter behavior”, who did not stop before having an affair with someone else’s husband on vacation!

– Are the woman’s parents really ready to give up their grandchildren in this case too?!

– We approach this a little differently. If a man went on a spree, but took the children, as expected, then in most cases he will not take a walk for long. Children need to be looked after, but mistresses rarely cope with this. But the man himself doesn’t know how to do this, and he’s not supposed to run a house, he has to earn money. The only men who do not return to their wives are those whose new wife is hard-working and ready to accept his children and look after them. But this is also rare. So only those who have a mother or sisters with their children leave with ends, and he himself leaves somewhere to earn money.

– So why did the special services bother Bagjad?! If I had given the children away, waited a little, Oksana would have run away herself!

– She wanted it that way. In addition, I thought that he would have nowhere to live – his mother said that she would not let a non-Christian on the threshold, so she hoped that he would push around – and back. And then I found out that he bought an apartment in Makhachkala and was moving this one of his there. And this radically changes things.

Meanwhile, Dagestani men are sure that the one who left his wife is to blame.

“Divorce is a sin,” says Mukhetdin, an imam (interpreter of the suras of the Koran for parishioners. – Auto.) from Derbent. “This man should have just taken a second wife if the older one couldn’t cope with something.” With her consent, of course.

– But older wives probably don’t want younger ones?

– Why? The more wives, the easier it is for each of them individually. They share responsibilities around the house and children among themselves. And if they don’t like something, then they all together demand that their husband improve their living conditions.

It’s curious, but the method of revenge itself is almost never discussed in the republic.

“The Makhachkala airport has already suffered so much after the riots that now it’s a piece of cake for them to respond to such signals,” says Umaira, whose husband works in the security service of that same long-suffering airport.

But Russian psychologists working on specialized hotlines, where citizens can report people and objects that have alarmed them after learning about the incident in Makhachkala, said that such “revenge” could soon become a very big problem.

“And for the avengers themselves, who do not disdain methods,” clarifies psychologist Tatyana Voronkova, who helps victims of emergency situations, “and for services that prevent dangerous situations, and as a result, for all of us.” Distracted by false signals, services will not be able to deal with true threats, and we will all be in danger. The more false informants, the greater the danger. And if this goes on, the punishment for unscrupulous avengers may be toughened.

Today, according to Article 19.13 of the Code of Administrative Offenses of the Russian Federation, a knowingly false call to specialized services (fire department, police, ambulance or others) entails an administrative fine of up to 1,500 rubles.