The psychologist explained why some women have affairs with married men

Competitiveness, boredom and lack of thrills lead many women to have affairs with married men. This was stated by the psychologist Svetlana Tropmann. According to her observations, such ladies reject free gentlemen, since there is no element of play and risk with them.

“A married man is always exciting and unpredictable: will he come to me or stay on the weekends with his wife? Does his wife have a clue, or should she give a hint? – explained the psychologist.

In addition, the choice in favor of a married man is influenced by attitudes from the girl’s childhood. If she saw the negative attitudes of her parents or the drunkenness of her father, then she develops a negative attitude towards men.

Listening to the phrase “all men are goats,” a woman, deep down, is afraid to start a family. A long-term relationship with a married man is unlikely, so it looks like a safe option.

The requirements learned from childhood to be better than others spur the competitive spirit and make you compete, win and justify your own importance.

“The struggle, as a rule, takes place not for a man as a desired object, but with his “owner” in an attempt to prove her superiority to her,” Svetlana Tropmann noted.

The lack of love received in childhood also affects the personal life of a woman. Growing up, she subconsciously chooses a partner who will act as detached as her parents.

“Just such a role model is often chosen by married men. Either he says that the relationship is over, then he vows to get a divorce, ”the psychologist explained.

In her opinion, you should deal with your internal attitudes in order to learn how to choose men with whom you can build strong and warm relationships.

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