Schizoids and hysteroids: a psychologist revealed the reasons for the strange behavior of Buzova, Kirkorov, Lagutenko

Have you ever thought that the way we look can determine our essence? Clothing, gait, demeanor – all of this add up to the features of our personality. A person may not notice this, but there are certain attributes of behavior and its appearance, according to which the predominant psychotype can be considered. Psychologist Valeria Ketova told MK which of our stars belongs to what type of personality, and where our stars get their strange, sometimes, behavior.

“People who prefer bright colors, outrageous outfits that attract glances from the outside and enjoy it, belong to hysterical personality type. Hysteria takes brightness, noise. The main goal of the hysteroid is to impress. Everything there shines, shines, screams, there is no place for dryness, because everything is very juicy, expensive and tasteful. Bold images, bright details: stones, rhinestones, furs – this is always about hysteria. Such people like to surprise and even shock the public; an assessment from the outside is important for them, so that they are talked about and admired for their beauty, courage and greatness. In fact, they are getting their way. A striking example of this type of personality is Olga Buzova. Her pathos, excessive emotionality, hyper-sensitivity, her manner of dressing brightly and openly tells us that we have an exceptional hysteroid, an actress. All people of this psychotype are born artists who cannot live without an audience, since their main goal is to impress, Ketova argues. – This confirms the huge number of TV shows where Buzova takes part, the sensations around her name, the constant discussion and a large number of hate. In addition, Olga’s social network is full of millions of stories every day, where she demonstrates her luxurious life and almost every step she takes. In this case, the desire to share, but rather to brag, emphasizes her hysteria. Of course, Buzova causes a double reaction with her excessive emotionality, because it seems to people that all this is simulated, and they cannot understand what she really feels and where she is real. It can be assumed that Olga is not fully aware of this either, because her life is an eternal race with herself and others. And in this race there are no moments of safety and respite, because it is scary to be left alone to face your painful part. Instead, in moments of uncertainty, the hysteroid type of personality out of fear begins to exaggerate its gestures, facial expressions and change the tone of voice, hysteria.

According to the psychologist, such people are often successful, but it’s definitely not worth envying such an ability to climb Olympus.

“Wait to be upset that you are not like that. Behind the appearance that attracts us so much, for the most part, there are deeply unhappy people inside, who have no contact with themselves, trying with all their might to escape from inner pain. The way they look and present themselves allows them to hide the emptiness inside. Of course, there are exceptions, because each of us is unique and combines many psychotypes, which, depending on the interweaving with each other, are played in a completely unexpected way. Such people need to be conveyed that there is no need to attract attention and entertain people all the time, and a person is valuable in itself, regardless of whether he does something or not. In a word, you need to connect rationalization in order to build an internal support and give a sense of security, ”summed up the psychologist.

The other type is narcissistic personalities – these are people who love clarity, understandability, constitutionally, canonically “correct form”. Ladies advocate that the style of a woman be feminine, in a certain color scheme, sexy and mysterious.

“Straight posture, fitted silhouettes… Daffodils are very demanding in terms of their appearance: it is imperative that it be beautiful and at the same time within the framework – a story about them. It is important for such people how they look, how they are presented in the world and what they are. They can be categorical, demanding not only to themselves, but also to everything around them. All the time they strive to get to the bottom of the matter, they are characterized by frequent doubts, they are not ready to put up with deceit and falsity. However, do not tolerate extremes. They seem to want classics, but they immediately put on sneakers. Philip Kirkorov can be attributed to this type of personality. His crowns, suits with rhinestones, feathers, platform sneakers, bright leather jackets with spikes and prints, oversized clothes, neon jeans, brands and adherence to the latest fashion trends are just a small part of Kirkorov’s outrageous image. He not only on stage, but also in life dresses brightly, like a teenager rebelling against parental prohibitions. Age for him has never been and never will be a hindrance, – says the expert. – Any girl can envy his narcissism and sense of self-worth, exactly like his wardrobe. He boldly and openly declares his uniqueness, does not expect praise from others, because he is convinced that everyone worships him. The title of “King of the Russian stage” was probably given to him by himself, and everyone else picked it up. After all, in reality it is difficult to find someone who can outshine Kirkorov. Luxury and wealth in large dimensions are everywhere with him: the house, his shows, going out. He and the concept of “modesty” are at different poles. There is not a single appearance of him, where in the conversation he would not pay attention to his person, would not note that he has no equal. And he says it completely sincerely. It is not just an image, it is its essence. For narcissists, not being perfect and better than others is like death. They love to show off to always be in sight and on hearing, constantly drawing attention to their person in all sorts of ways. His actions, behaviors are extravagant, like himself. This is evidenced by Kirkorov’s desire to constantly “young” and keep up with trends in both music and style.

By the way, according to the psychologist, Kirkorov’s recent series of plastic surgeries is another confirmation in favor of the narcissistic personality type.

“He does everything to ensure that the new generation cannot overshadow him, because he is definitely not going to part with his crown. What are his latest cardinal changes in the image: liposuction and blepharoplasty, which made a lot of noise. Any, even negative opinion, will flatter him and feed his narcissism, because he knows who is on the pedestal, ”explains Valeria.

Why does Kirkorov behave like this? According to the specialist, everything comes from childhood: “You can talk a lot about how Philip enjoys his life outwardly, but in fact, somewhere deep inside, as in the case of hysteroids, an insensitive part is hidden: an abandoned inner child, with whom no contact. In working with narcissists, it is first of all important to legalize and allow him to be somewhere in the middle. This is what would be healing for both the narcissist and the hysterical personality type: an honest admission to myself that I can be not number one in something, and this is absolutely normal. This awareness would help to direct the entire focus of attention inward, and not on the outside world and its demands to conform and surprise.

Another type – schizoid personality. They demonstrate their figure to a lesser extent, because they do not have a reliance on it. In clothes, as a rule, unusual and sometimes incompatible things predominate. However, schizoids do not flaunt themselves, they simply wear what they see fit, not paying attention to the reaction of other people. “They have their own atmosphere, their own hobbies, comfort is important to them in everything. At the same time, they are quite resourceful, their jokes are not for everyone, but for the elite, thinking. The clothes are dominated by black, and if they see stupidity, they immediately send them to “ignore”. These are very cheerful and friendly people, but it will not always be noticeable in their face that you are welcome. This is a story about “I’m in the house.” Ilya Lagutenko, the frontman of the Mumiy Troll group, can be attributed to this type of personality among representatives of the national stage. Despite his popularity, he is not a public person: he was never in a hurry to take part in dubious projects and numerous talk shows, to light up everywhere and as much as possible, like other stars. He has his own wave, his behavior is unpredictable. He is not interested in everything superfluous and extraneous, – Ketov opens the cards. – His schizoid personality is quite interesting to watch. Appearance itself is unusual – like a person from another planet. He is the owner of amazing charisma with feline habits and a meowing voice, which catches others. There is a slight negligence in the style, there is no imitation of the latest fashion trends, here it is rather striking how comfortable and harmonious he looks in his image, being a supporter of his uniqueness. Remember the fashion for this mysterious group. Schizoid lyrics with a “dual purpose”, just like the titles of the albums, are always ambiguous and incomprehensible even to their fans: “Sea”, “Caviar”, “Just mercury of aloe”, etc. Unlike daffodils and hysteroids, Lagutenko never intentionally tries to surprise and shock the public. It just doesn’t make any sense. He does not need external confirmation of his innate sense of taste, he lives for himself and creates based on internal motives, and does not focus on what he can definitely fly up to the first lines in all the charts.