How to mentally prepare for the New Year: useful tips

– The eve of the New Year for each person is both a time for summing up and exciting ideas about the next year. Summing up is always an important part of our lives, when we don’t just tell ourselves that a year has passed, but about what we managed to do and what we achieved during this year, and most importantly, what experience was gained. Often, we evaluate some events taking place in our life negatively, not realizing that they need to be perceived as some kind of experience we have gained. And it is very important what we learned from it.

Let all the difficulties that happened to us in the outgoing year be the experience that will give us positive results in the coming years.

It is important to evaluate any of your achievements without devaluing them. Do not say: what am I, the other one is better! You always need to compare yourself with the previous one, compare with your last year’s achievements. And do not assume that if, according to some stories, you did not perform grandiose actions, then the year was in vain. No, not in vain! Something important, valuable, significant for you has definitely happened this year.

And you also need to think: who can you thank for this year? And not only those who did something good and pleasant for us. Thank the person who treated you harshly for teaching you not to be so vulnerable. Try to thank the person who yelled at you – for your ability to be calm, to see the reason for his cry is that this person has his own internal problems, and he expresses them this way. Even if someone annoys or offends us, there is no need to judge a person, label him immediately, following the first reaction. After all, this person met you on the path of life for some reason. Maybe you need it so that you become different, become better.

This year we all went through stress, fear. And it is important to be able to overcome them. Respect strong, brave, responsible men. Understand the pain, fear of women. But at the same time, understand the mission of each and not evaluate them according to some external characteristics. Give yourself time to be quiet and think.

Where you direct your attention is what increases in your life. And if in the past year you said that “everything is bad”, then you will have the feeling that everything is bad. But it’s important to see what was good. After all, there were definitely a lot of good things: family joys, children’s successes, professional achievements, recovery …

How to prepare for the New Year’s Eve? Even if you are very busy and exhausted in the evening in front of the TV, try to do a little magic: think about gifts. When a person prepares gifts, even the smallest ones, he gets into a festive mood.

Life is moving forward. And in order for this to happen, sometimes you need to let something out of your life in order to free up space in it. Tidy up the house, sort out the deposits of unnecessary things. Sell ​​something, give something to someone. In the same way, sort out your notebook, your relationships. Tidy up your laptop and phone. To enable the world, God to give you something new in 2023.

Unfortunately, it often happens that we encounter in life what we would not like, or what we did not expect. But this does not mean that God does not love us. He simply gives us, to the best of our ability and ability, to obtain the necessary experience. You need to be able to thank each other for the experience, even if it hurts. Relationships collapsed – not to blame the other person, but to understand, accept his position, his opinion, his feelings.

Probably, on the eve of the New Year, the feeling of loneliness is especially aggravated. But if you find yourself without a couple on New Year’s Eve, this does not mean that you are unhappy. On the contrary, you need to be able to come to a state of happiness, regardless of how others evaluate you. Because love and peace are in us. May “our” people, those who make our world brighter and more diverse, be magnetically attracted to us in the new year.

Do not forget that the New Year is not just a beautiful feast, it is time spent with the family, with our children. It can be diversified by preparing elementary games, some simple performances that are feasible for each family member, come up with riddles for each other. You can talk about the brightest day of the past year, share what emotions were the most joyful for each family member in the past year, and what upset them. Or you can try to cook your own dish for the festive table, so that each family member contributes to the holiday.

It is important not how long we are at the table with our children, but what we are talking about with them at this moment. You can sing songs together at home karaoke. Make something with your children and give it to a lonely neighbor … Think on New Year’s Eve about how you can make the world a little brighter and happier, and not expect the world to immediately throw itself into your arms in response. Yes, it is impossible to make a sick person healthy in one moment, but you can give him happiness, the joy of a moment that he will remember and which will give him the strength to fight for his life.

On New Year’s Eve, not only a child, but also an adult hopes for magic. But we can do it every day! Even in small things, but we can make a fairy tale every day.

Each of us, changing our attitude towards the world, towards people, surprisingly begins to see changes in the world around us. After all, a Christmas tree will not appear in the house by itself – you thought about it, went, bought it – so your idea was realized. Therefore, let our thoughts build our next year, like a constructor, from bright, iridescent, beautiful, happy elements.