Sudzilovskaya admitted that her son did not accept the career of an actor

Olesya Sudzilovskaya quite unexpectedly appeared at the presentation of a secular award, although she rarely attends such events. However, there was a reason: the awards were received by “Moms of the Year”. And Olesya can also bear this honorary title for many years. Sudzilovskaya has two sons. The eldest Artem is 13 years old, the youngest Mike is six. And, of course, this evening it was about the topics of education and motherhood. Sudzilovskaya shared her life hacks on this topic.

“The main life hack in the matter of education is only one: there must be unconditional love, you must accept your child as he is: with good grades or not, with different behavior, always be on his side. Even if you were called to school, there are some comments about your kid from the teacher, you should stand with your child, holding hands. And listen, silently, sort it out already at home, but in no case in the presence of another do not make comments to him, ”the actress shared.

Olesya also admitted that, like all mothers, she is faced with such a phenomenon as gadgets in the lives of children: “The sooner you start talking with your child, accustoming you to work and the ability to learn, the better. As soon as the child begins to break away from gadgets and spend time with you, consider that you – mom-well done!

In the process of communicating with journalists, we also talked about how to make a son or daughter trust her mother, tell her about her life and even some forbidden things.

“My psychologist, from whom I studied for several years, says a simple thing: you should behave with your children like you would with your friend who came to you, told you that she had gone somewhere and tried something. So it is with a child. No need to answer him: “Oh, how dare you!” You need to ask: “Well, how did you like it?” And, of course, a personal example. It is impossible to wean a child from smoking with a cigarette in his mouth. Don’t do what I do, it won’t work, ”the actress explained.

Of course, star mothers have much more opportunities to combine work and motherhood. At least many of them have nannies and finances to pay them. However, as Sudzilovskaya admitted, when her children were small, it was their father who spent a lot of time with the children in the first place.

“I thank my husband endlessly, because when the eldest child was seven months old, I left for the shooting. It was very hard. And I also starred in the film “Stone”, where a child was stolen from me according to the script – it was impossible to survive. Being pregnant with my first child, I voiced my role in the ninth month. During my first pregnancy, I managed to shoot up to the seventh month, and during the second – up to the sixth. These were the paintings “Yana plus Janko” and “North Wind”. Thanks to my husband, I did not experience any discomfort or was deprived of something. The husband said that it was necessary to do as it used to be: women gave birth without leaving the ears. That means you have to keep working. – You are not a sick person, there is nothing catastrophic! And, of course, grandmother and nannies help us now. The first nanny has been with us for thirteen years, the second for six. I pass on my nannies because it’s hard to find a good nanny. I will not name names, but one of my nannies was handed over to my public friends, who had a granddaughter. So I gave my dear, proven, honest woman by inheritance. They, thank God, everything is fine,” said the star.

Now the children have grown up, they need nannies less and less. The boys try themselves in different directions, lead an active lifestyle, about which Olesya told Moskovsky Komsomolets: “A lot of skills were acquired over the summer. We got on the Sup (board on the water), on the Jet Ski (jet ski), the older one drove in a racing car, and we were with the younger one as a passenger. We climbed mountains, dived, read a lot – this is also a test for my mother (smiles). The little one learned to read well: we are six years old, and soon we are going to school. In general, the youngest has been practicing since the age of two. At first there was fine motor skills, then we got used to chess, then we went in for sports. We give everything we can to the children.”

However, the boys also have artistic talents, but they do not want to develop in this direction yet.

“The elder brilliantly played Koshchei at school, but he doesn’t see his future in this, I just have to cry over it,” Sudzilovskaya admitted to MK. – The little one also has great talents in this sense, he has a very good sense of music, rhythm, very good hearing. But the elder thinks that acting – this is a woman’s occupation, and his occupation – this is hockey. Dad also decided that his sons are hockey players.